Teenage , it is that phase of life where we neither qualify as adults nor children. Life goes through many circumstances and our age decides how we deal it it. There are three main stages childhood, adolescence and old age. All this phases in life have their own importance. Childhood and old age are quite similar as they both need love and care from their loved ones. The only dissimilarity is that old age has that experience certificate and childhood is just the beginning of stepping into the world.
Then there comes a phase which is betwixt of both ;the teen age. Teenage is the most crucial stage of development. Suddenly the shield which we had before vanishes and we are exposed to the real world. It is the most rebellious stage; there is so much to explore. It is actually very hard to decide when to be child or adult. All of a sudden there is a lot of confusion in life.
In this phase there are not only hormonal changes but also mental changes. We want to do everything all of a sudden, but then we find restrictions applied on us. We don’t feel independent everything seems to be trapped. There is a curiosity to explore things like drugs, relationships etc. There is a kind of restlessness. Nowadays technology is developing fast so now the teen age life is quite different. In this phase you are categorised on the basis of your choices or hobbies; like goth , nerdy, too fashionable, boring and so on. We teenager of this generation love things going according to our way. We live in our self absorbed world if someone matches that then he is your best friend or else just a normal person.We love being friends with everyone but trust only few. We like to set our own rules. This is the time when there is a lot of arguments with parents because we think they are restricting us from the outside world, but in actual they are telling us about the real world. We teenager love to stay fit in shape but yes , we can’t resist dominos and Mc Donalds. Our phone is our best friend; a companion all the time. There is so much hot blood flowing withing us that if the energy is put into the right place would make him reach milestones.
We love making memories , teenagers have the most social snap.
Bunking lectures with ur friends?
So let’s snap it first or let’s update a status. We sometimes live in a virtual world.
This is a very crucial stage, the friends we choose to live by; the company that we live in decides all.
This phase can either lead you to your path to success or destruction the choice is all yours.
We teenagers are difficult to understand. We are a challenge but worth it. With depression, elation pimples, funky hair styles, attitude, no fear, shyness, ambition, mischievous, insecure, confident,we are at the pinnacle of age rebel, looking for a cause. But let me tell you.. depression is like a feeling like you have lost something but having no clue when you last had it. And then when you realise..What you lost was actually yourself!
The world looks unfair, rules look twisted and everything around seems like a conspiracy. This is the age where we meet a lot of friends. Experience various emotions like heartbreaks , friendship problems , college problems but still we all seem sorted. Whatever it might be this is the best phase for our life which is gonna give us a lot of memories to be cherished lifetime. Put the rebellious energy and the efforts in the right place and you are gonna see difference tomorrow. This are the moments you are gonna remember when you sit with your children and tell them your teenage life.
Make it worth remembering.!!
Teenage life is possibly adult life too. It is all about what you want and can’t have. And then about what you receive and misuse.
“Teenagehood-that time in life when you show your individuality by looking like everyone else. “
Hope you have a great weekend ahead!! 😊